About 1.5 months ago i got eventually to understand a girl that everyday lives 5 mins far from me personally.
We published for 1-2 times, then came across. The very first 2 times simply speaking with one another then, at a concert, making away.
Long tale short. We’ve been kinda “dating” now for the previous 1.5 months. Often venturing out as well as buddies. And mostly me personally planning to her spot into the to spend the night together evening. (If relevant we already did sets from making down to resting with one another maybe once or twice).
She can often be only a little hot headed, but i truly I believe vice versa like her and. To be honest I love you” (like in the non-relationship style “hab dich lieb” in German that she seems very locked at telling emotions or saying things like. The not too severe variation) and extremely hardly ever states although when I am with her she is a cuddle beast, so to say that she really likes me. Let’s imagine, she shows the love that she appears reluctant to spell.
Now exactly exactly what really bothers me personally a little is as we are in the same position as we were a month ago that I have no clue how this will continue. Perhaps perhaps maybe Not in a relationship, but freely “being together” if that is reasonable? That we are “with each other” in public with friends, family (my brother, cousin who live in the same town) and she is talking about me and us openly with her parents as well so we show. That confuses me personally a little.
She’s got additionally hinted because she is a person that cannot express emotions that well, I don’t know if that is really meant seriously or not that she does not want a relationship, but. (She stated that after we’d a fight that is small absolutely absolutely nothing dramatic. )